Last evening, my ex navy friends came over my place and visit my little Princeton. My boy was so happi to see visitors! Keng boon commented tat Prince was a faster learner compared to others. Coz he is oni 4months old, and his neck is very steady now. Hehe.... N my boy is very vocal, he could speak alot of baby language, and can smile very responsively.

Sister loves him so much ya. She aso commented tat darling baby is so fat fat now. Beginning to look like me, face so round, lol. My boy now is learning how to sit. I believe he can sit up in no time :)



But my Princeton does not have much hair. I have not bring him to shave off all his hair. Dont dare wor... mayb wait till next month bah. Coz i'm afraid his skull is still too soft. This chubby is putting on weight everyday. Alot of his clothes cant be wore anymore. He got everything new, we din let him wear any old clothes. Though old ppl says tat we should let baby wear some old clothes, so tat he can grow up faster. Haha... yes i agreed in some extend. But one old clothes is enough. Some of my friends, let their children wear all old clothes from other ppl... alamak.. pls lor, though u can really save alot, but dont need to be so thrifty. All old clothes?? dont u think its abit unhygiene? Esp the mittons... coz the baby will always put their fingers into their mouth. So i believe u would rather spend more for the hygiene of ur child.

Today is a slack day for mi... not many ppl opening accounts. But really a big crowd in the banking hall. So many ppl deposit and withdrawing money. Haiz... regarding my future job, my friend told mi tat she have one friend once from that french bank. She quit tat job, and now tat position is vacant. She advise me not to go there... sign.... there goes my opportunity.

Guess i got to stay on to this job for the time being.

Heart attack

It was a heart attack for me and my family yesterday. The sarong in my inlaw's place suddenly break off!! My precious Princeton landed on the floor! He screamed immediately. I was having dinner wif my FIL in the kitchen, den suddenly my MIL came over and told me the sarong hook break. I thought she was joking, coz she was laughing away!! WTF! How could the hook just break!! I rushed to the rm in one sec! My maid was carrying Princeton, and my poor boy was crying non stop.There was a BIG BIG bump behind his head, it was red and very swollen.

I was lost, and i cried too. I faster called zhenyu & sis and told them wat happen, and asked hubby to dash over immediately! He was actually having OT last evening. While waiting for him to come over, i was feeling very nervous, coz Princeton was still screaming in pain. I asked my in laws for the zambuk cream, but they dont have it!!!!!!! The whole house dont even have zambuk for my baby????! I was very angry, and ask them who can we borrow from??? Any neighbours have it ornot?? Then we went downstairs to borrow. I ran down and took from the neighbour. Applied the cream and massage gently behind baby's head. He scream even loudly... I cant let him cry for so long, so i made some milk and let him drink.

My FIL kept saying its ok one, jus a fall ONLY. My MIL still laughing away, thinking its very funny. F**K man, i am really angry, and she can still laugh. Told me go to the clinic can already. I think she must be mad, mentally mad. Of course i have to bring Princeton to the hospital now! wat clinic??! Clinic have the scanning xray to do is it??! I dont feel like talking to them, jus waiting for zhenyu to come. Tat moment in time, one min passes like an hour. Zhenyu finally arrived, and we dashed to KK.

The emergency was full of ppl.. everyone was like carrying their children, either fever or injured. The faces of the parents was as anxious as me. Luckily, Princeton stopped crying, and he can smile to us when we sing him songs. Waited for about 3 hrs, the x ray was done, and doc told us there was no visible fracture from the xray. Told us to observe baby for 3days, see if there are any bleeding from the ears or nose. I called my manager and my officer, request to take urgent leave the next day. I will not bring him over to my inlaws place again. I'm not being unreasonable, and i aso understand tat it wasn't their fault, and no one wished this to happen. But how are they going to assure me again? How am i going to rest assure tat my boy will be in good hands over there???

They din even come along to the hospital together, and the feeling tat they gave me was tat, it was a small matter. My sis and bro in law came over right after their work. This is wat i call family.

I thank GOD Princeton was ok, and pray tat he will recover fast. I feel so lousy, cant even protect my son. As parents, we must protect our child from all the bad things. There are no such things as OVER protected. My Princeton is barely 4months old, wat do u mean by over protected??? In future, anything i say will be final, and when i say no, it only means NO.

HURT VERY HURT

Today is sunday, as usual i slept til one pm... Zhenyu having duty today, when i woke up, very hungry so i asked amie to cook me some pasta. Princeton is playing happily by himself in the baby cot. I kissed his cheeks and he giggled.. when i walked away to my room, he began to make noise, i can sense tat he was saying, mummi please dun go away, play wif mi pls. I went back to him again and smile at him. When he saw mi, he smiled. Princeton is going to be 4months next wk, im so happi! Kept thinking the day when he can walk... I went back to have a nap again at 3pm.. cant sleep well, having nightmares. woke up at 6 and had a bath. After tat, went to buy dinner for amie. Den i went jurong point for pedicure. On the way back while waiting for bus, zhenyu called mi. We chat about the plan tmr. Coz tmr we're going to bring maid and princeton over to my inlaw's place. As both of us will be working tmr, nobody is at hm to oversee the maid. So my FIL took leave to look after them. I told zhenyu tat, pls remind father dont bring princeton out, let him stay at hm. Coz we are not around, i will be worried. Not tat i dont trust my FIL, but as a mother, of course i will be worried when my son is outside, and im not by his side.

I told zy how i feel, saying tat princeton is my son, and i gave birth to him, of course i'll be anxious and worried. Do u know wat zhenyu replied mi?? "Ni hai bu shi kai dao ge chu lai de?" (u aso cut and took the baby out) When i hear this, my eyes gets watery, and less than 3sec, tears flow down like waterfall. I tired to control, but i cant.. my heart hurts, as though a knife pierced my heart into half. i hung down the phone without saying anytin. I shut off the phone too.. Never did i think he would say tis kind of thing to mi. He msg, saying tat he was sori, and he was oni joking.

Do u think this kind of sentence u can joke about? Yes i know i am useless, i did not give birth naturally. I know i'm useless, i cant take the pain. I am guilty for tat, and esp i did not breastfeed princeton... as my wound pain is unbearable, and the contraction gets worse when i tried to breastfeed. So i really hope i can give my boy the best in other things... During my pregnancy, i suffered alot, vomit b4 n after every meal. After operation, though my confinement was well done, n i feel much healthy now, but there are cons on the other side. People wondering y i dont always carry my son? U really think i dont wish to cuddle him? My back began to ache every nite. Whenever i bend down, it hurts. When i carry princeton, my back hurts even more, esp he is putting on weight now. At nite, i cant sleep well, coz i am suffering from backache already. The worst thing is, my hair drop alot alot.. i think im going to turn bold soon.

As my husband, instead of loving me more, he said this kind of comment to his wife. No matter how many sorry he can say, my hurt can never go away. I am terribly upset now, still wondering how could he say such thing to me?? U mean all these while, u had been thinking tat ur wife is not as Wei Da as those who can give birth naturally rite?

Mayb one day i will forgive, but i will never forget.

HURT VERY HURT

Today is sunday, as usual i slept til one pm... Zhenyu having duty today, when i woke up, very hungry so i asked amie to cook me some pasta. Princeton is playing happily by himself in the baby cot. I kissed his cheeks and he giggled.. when i walked away to my room, he began to make noise, i can sense tat he was saying, mummi please dun go away, play wif mi pls. I went back to him again and smile at him. When he saw mi, he smiled. Princeton is going to be 4months next wk, im so happi! Kept thinking the day when he can walk...

I went back to have a nap again at 3pm.. cant sleep well, having nightmares. woke up at 6 and had a bath. After tat, went to buy dinner for amie. Den i went jurong point for pedicure. On the way back while waiting for bus, zhenyu called mi. We chat about the plan tmr. Coz tmr we're going to bring maid and princeton over to my inlaw's place. As both of us will be working tmr, nobody is at hm to oversee the maid. So my FIL took leave to look after them. I told zhenyu tat, pls remind father dont bring princeton out, let him stay at hm. Coz we are not around, i will be worried. Not tat i dont trust my FIL, but as a mother, of course i will be worried when my son is outside, and im not by his side.

I told zy how i feel, saying tat princeton is my son, and i gave birth to him, of course i'll be anxious and worried. Do u know wat zhenyu replied mi?? "Ni hai bu shi kai dao ge chu lai de?" (u aso cut and took the baby out) When i hear this, my eyes gets watery, and less than 3sec, tears flow down like waterfall. I tired to control, but i cant.. my heart hurts, as though a knife pierced my heart into half. i hung down the phone without saying anytin. I shut off the phone too.. Never did i think he would say tis kind of thing to mi. He msg, saying tat he was sori, and he was oni joking. Do u think this kind of sentence u can joke about?

Yes i know i am useless, i did not give birth naturally. I know i'm useless, i cant take the pain. I am guilty for tat, and esp i did not breastfeed princeton... as my wound pain is unbearable, and the contraction gets worse when i tried to breastfeed. So i really hope i can give my boy the best in other things... During my pregnancy, i suffered alot, vomit b4 n after every meal. After operation, though my confinement was well done, n i feel much healthy now, but there are cons on the other side. People wondering y i dont always carry my son? U really think i dont wish to cuddle him? My back began to ache every nite. Whenever i bend down, it hurts. When i carry princeton, my back hurts even more, esp he is putting on weight now. At nite, i cant sleep well, coz i am suffering from backache already. The worst thing is, my hair drop alot alot.. i think im going to turn bold soon.

As my husband, instead of loving me more, he said this kind of comment to his wife. No matter how many sorry he can say, my hurt can never go away. I am terribly upset now, still wondering how could he say such thing to me?? U mean all these while, u had been thinking tat ur wife is not as Wei Da as those who can give birth naturally rite?

Mayb one day i will forgive, but i will never forget.

Irritating customers

Sometimes i really feel like slapping them. Asking so many silly questions, and insist tat i gave them an answer? I think i'm not suitable in customer service line, though i had been in the bank for 2.5years. Last time i was a waitress when i was 15. I like serving food, recommending customers wat are our speciality. I had very gd memory in food, hehe.... i meant i can memorise customer's order even though i did not write it down. But now, in the banking industries, customers are really different. Esp, when u met those irritating one!

Today was a busi day. My partner off day,so only left me alone upstairs, opening accounts for these people. First one walk in, he already act as though i owed him one million dollar. Never mind, sit down, say he want to place money in the foreign currency Fixed deposit. I checked his profile, he already has an account. So i told him upstairs is for opening accounts only. Placement is to be done downstairs. He den say he want to open SGD FD account. Den after opening, he say he changed his mind, he wanna place in e Foreign Current FD instead. He say since he already with me for so long, so he asked mi to do e placement for him. Wah kao, waste my time only!

Second customer walked in, tis time is a lady. Come in aso wan to open a Foreign currency FD account. But dont have money to open. Told me her money is at citibank. Den wat? i go citibank take for her isit? Go to citibank and withdraw money den come over open account la! Silly rite?? B4 she left, she ask mi 101 questions about tis account. Really feel like punching her already, jammed me for so long, until my queue become so long.

Third stupid customers walked in at 4.25pm, a china student. The bank closed at 4.30, u see these ppl cannot come earlier. Never mind, of course i still have to serve her. "DBS bank savings account is without a passbook. We oni provide statements every month end. So if u want a passbook, u have to go POSB bank to open the account." She asked: " why no passbook? how come we dont have passbook? I wan a passbook in DBS. Really an idiot, i just told her DBS no passbook, if she wan a book, go POSB. I repeat like 3times, den her brain works. She said ok, nvm, go ahead and open the account. I need her address in spore and in china. She think so so so long.. den told mi she cant rem her address for both. She said why do we need her address for, so troublesome. Her brain cant work again, she forget we need to send her statements, so of course we need her address. Den she said, nvm, so troublesome, she dont wan to open. Damn wasting my time!

I gota rush hm today coz nobody is at hm, oni maid and princeton. So luckily, managed to finish up my things b4 530. After tat i took a cab hm. Now waiting for my dearie to come back, den we'll go for dinner together. I met all kinds of customers. watever patterns aso have. The most incredible one aso exists. I guess i must drink some herbal tea b4 my blood pressure overflow.

Princeton is 3months 2weeks soon!

Today is my off day... jus woke up not long ago, hehe. So delighted to see Princeton when i wake up. He was tossing around the baby cot., playing with himself. Though im hungry, but instead of finding food to eat, i carry my boy up and walk around the house. I put him on my bed, and talk to him... he was giggling softly. After tat, i on the educational dvd, which brought by my sis. I let Princeton laid on my chest to watch the dvd. He can focus! haha... He likes to watch tv, likes to take photos, likes to hear music, most of all, he likes to drink milk. hee... he can drink alot. So now become so meaty already. But i wont let him become overweight.


Princeton is trying to flip now.. My hubby will give him a helping hand, by pushing him to one side, and let him flip back himself. This is rather dangerous, coz he's stil young, do not know how to flip back himself. So i ask zhenyu dont do it too often. Amie just feed him, so now my little prince is sleeping.. later sis will be coming over for dinner, so can play wif him. As both mi and zhenyu are working, we do not have much time to play wif princeton... so whenever weekends, i try to spend more time with my boy.

My mummi is going for holiday soon next week, 12th to 26th. I took leave for the first week, and my FIL took leave for the second week. Coz cant leave maid with princeton for so many days. Well, any updates for my new jobs? I am still waiting too... the recruitment centre did call mi for some queries, but i haven been to any interviews yet. But to be frank, i am quite comfortable to my job now... colleagues seems to treat mi better, and i perform quite well too. Well, lets wait for any opportunities den. If there is a higher pay, i think i will go.