Moms Make Children Blossom!

Happy Mother's Day to all the marvelous and beautiful mommies!! Especially to my beloved mother, aka lil ps ah ma, thank you for loving us so much! You had a hard time in your early part life, but i assured you will be the most fortunate and happiest woman as long as I'm alive.

My mum is getting older, and she had been falling sick quite often recently. I sincerely pray for her well being and her speedy recovery. She still worried about my grandma, who is very weak, lying on the bed most of the bed. Grandma is 93 years old, very weak...but her minds are clear and sharp. I tried my best to buy the diapers and milk over for grandma. At times when I'm busy, my mum got to carry all these stuffs alone, taking bus, walking under the hot sun. I felt very heartache and sad, very touched... yes. But would felt furious when i thought why must she be the one doing it everytime??!

I always ask Princeton, what happened when mummy grow old?? He would replied, 'i will bath you and i will take care of u. Then he will hug me. Zhenyu saw this, and he asked immediately, what about daddy??? Princeton will say, No.. i only take care mummy:p I would sneered, and quickly correct him by saying, Princeton, you must love daddy also. You must take care of mummy and daddy together.

People sees that i pampered Princeton alot. But never get to see how lunatic i became when i punished him. Zhenyu and maid would know best. These few days especially, dunno what had gotten with me, super foul mood, got irritated easily. Seriously sick last week, and the screws must have loosened! Darn.... Or perhaps my requirements/standards for Princeton had moved on to a higher level.

Children throwing tantrums before one is cute. Before two is naive, before 3 is childish, before 4 is irritating, untrained, no discipline, wild, spoilt! My level of tolerance can only last till this stage. I wished God can give me strength to overcome my impatience. Give me wisdom to coach the children in a more efficient and less harshly manners. It's really a pain to keep shouting and screaming and beating.

Whatever i do, i do it for the best interest for my LiL Ps. I may be harsh, but it's for your own good. Dear Princeton, you must grow up to be an obedient and sensible boy. You are a big korkor now, you need to set a good example for your sister and your brother Zachary. You can be naughty, you can be mischievous, but you cannot be defiant. You got to learn through pain and you will be tougher. Or you can choose to learn through words, and became wiser. I always tell him these, make the right choice.