Wednesday, January 28, 2009

CNY period

Happy cny to u. Just a blink, there goes the first and second day of the cny... I had plenty of thoughts in mind, and i really like to spill everything out. Let me start from my second reunion dinner which was on the 230109. My first one is with uncle william rem? My second dinner was at my place. My mum cooked a feast, curry, fish, sea cucumber duck, abalone brocoli, my fav lotus soup. On the 240109 sat, mum also cook very nice food for me and zhenyu. On the actual day, eve of cny which happened to be a sunday. We both slept till late afternoon, stay at home and catch some dvd together. After tat, took a nap coz still feel sick actually. My fever just recovered. At about 3.30pm, this zhenyu woke me up, pestered me to go and bath and to get prepared. He said we have to reach my inlaws place by 5pm. I was thinking, huh, so early ah? Okok..... i dragged myself out of the bed even though my head is still quite dizzy.

B4 we were about to reach, my bro in law, david still msg and rush us, see if we were about to reach. Tat time we were about to go out, and told him, yes we're reaching. Less than 10 mins, we reached le. Coz live nearby only, plus dearie is a fast driver. To our astonishment, they had EATEN! MY FIL, MIL and TAT BRO IN LAW HAD ALL EATEN! Without us. Yes without us. I'm really fed up, super fed up! Hubby was also very angry, and kept asking my mil why they eat first. I'm too angry, and told hubby to shut up don't asked anymore.

Zhenyu is a person, forget about unhappiness very quickly. Me, a person who bear grudges. I din eat much, just eat a little bit, told them i'm full. Obviously i'm angry. But my mil stil can laugh and laugh say sorry ah, we are hungry so we eat first. BASKET, u all don't know wat is call a reunion dinner is it? Next time , NEVER expect me to come early! I will rem this day forever. Don't expect me to bring Princeton over for reunion dinner, see my mood! I'll go overseas during cny if i got extra money next yr!

I used to wear a mask, even though i may not feel happi infront of my inlaws, but they really gone too far this time. Many times, if not bcoz of zhenyu, i think i would really turn nasty. And that bro in law, i also got nothing to say about him. I try to be nice, so don't take me for granted. Do everything think of my princeton first, get him hurt in anyways again, then u guys can forget about seeing him in future. I'm not those daughter in law who can be so so so submissive. Everything also listen to their inlaws, everything also bo bian, no choice etc. NO! I don't need to depend on inlaws for money, i don't need them to give me a job for living, i don't live under their roof, i don't need them to take care of my princeton, i don't need them to tell me wat to do. BECAUSE, i'm the parent, and i hold the decision. Beside zhenyu, the rest please shut up.