To bring them out had been an enjoyment for us. Usually we don't bring our helper along, unless is to Uncle William's house or my friend's place for gathering. Monday, we brought the little Ps to the airport to fetch Ah Ma. They enjoyed the cooling place so much, and Princeton began to stroll Paris all around the place. haha... Fortunately, Princeton had abit sense of direction to bring meimei safely. Although they are only two age differences,Princeton could shower his love for his little sister and enjoy her companion. I could see that they find each other a pleasure to experience fun together:) Tian consistently will be talking to meimei while solving his puzzles, and both of them can giggled real loud. My friend Teck Keng came over to help me jump start my car. Luckily the battery was OK after recharging. Thanks so much TK! I appreciate your help and your thoughtfulness. You had always been a very nice friend.
Sister came over my place for homemade porridge. I prepared especially for my nephew: Cod fish and lean meat, healthy! We spend time making fun of xinxin, haha... We had a nice chat:) Sis shared with me many things. A husband is a Protector for the family. His duties not only to ensure food and safety, he must also do everything to protect his wife & his children from any harm (be it physical or verbal mistreatment). If the husband cannot fulfill this part, then this man is not worth to be married to. I agreed with my sister, and she continued saying that, a Wife duty is a Helper. We provide all the help that our man needs, and give each other the utmost support. A man's first priority must always be his wife & children. The rest will come in later, that include his own parents. I felt that if my husband's main focus is not the me and my little Ps, rather than gambling/smoking, or his leisure time sleeping and outings with his friends. Then this man really don't worth woman bearing children for him. (kick him out and go fly kite)
Sister also emphasized that woman should not be "too independent". In certain situation, we got to act blur and shows that we r unsure don't know how to do it. Man, who are always very ego, will prove that they can help us, and get the things done. If we show ourselves so independent in front of the Man. They will take it that we don't need them, and we can settle everything by ourselves, which is NOT right. That is why every trivial matter i get Zhenyu to settle, heehee... He always said "Don't tekan me leh... 哎哟，你没有我不行咯。。。 but still he will do it willingly. But inside him, he felt very satisfied and was thinking, "Wow! My wife needs me, I am very capable." wahaha....!!! Bingo! This is what we want.
Man always need to be the one who makes the decision. Because, they are the head of the family. Although zhenyu will 顺着我， but i will always discuss with him. Because whatever he agreed, he bears the consequences. No such thing as 随便，看你的。These words only comes from the wife. Esp things that involves the children.
Never do everything, never act smart and do the husband's job. Some things are just meant for them. Do not cultivate the Man to be lazy and in turn rely on the woman. (this will only make them very useless)
Yesterday i told hubby that the church had moved from expo to Suntec, we can attend the children church with the little Ps from this weekend onwards! He agreed and said hopefully Tian and Xin will like it.
Never do everything, never act smart and do the husband's job. Some things are just meant for them. Do not cultivate the Man to be lazy and in turn rely on the woman. (this will only make them very useless)
Yesterday i told hubby that the church had moved from expo to Suntec, we can attend the children church with the little Ps from this weekend onwards! He agreed and said hopefully Tian and Xin will like it.
