Zhenyu put in alot of effort for my family. He worked part time to earn extra cash so that i don't have to work as a waitress. He spend time taking care of my brother who was diagnosed with brain cancer. He stay overnight at my place and slept on the mattress beside ah boy every alternate days. We played poker cards and monopoly with ah boy everyday... Ah boy likes him alot, and told me never to change boyfriend again. This is one reason why i sticked so long with hubby. During that 3 years, we do not have much happy times dating like other couples do. As my family is going through a tough time, mentally and financially.
He was only a boyfriend that time. But the things he did was more than a bf would have done. Staying overnight at the hospital, at my place, at the funeral. Gave my mum money and help with the housework. After ah boy passed away, my father is next. He did the same thing, and without him, i would have breakdown.
Hubby don't come from a rich family. But at least a clean family background. Everything we have now are from his hard earned money. Our wedding banquet, our first flat, our first car, our honeymoon, his savings all goes to these. He is independent, and he don't rely on his parents at all. Thanks for being there for me all these years. Though you may be blur, forgetful, lazy, self centered, glutton, chubby, irritating, annoying, etc etc etc, but i accept your good and your bad, because you are my one and only one! Though i may spend less attention in you, because LiL Ps are my priority now:) But rest assured, we have many good years to go when both Tian&xin grown up. We will be like father mother, everyday watch movie, lim kopi, go jalan jalan, go tour, eat good food, get fat and exercise together:)
Life is short, forget about petty stuffs, think positive things, say positve things and do positive things:)
