We had a packed program last weekend. Saturday we attended my best pal's second Prince Javier bb shower. Brought the lil Ps along, and they really enjoyed alot, especially Princeton boy. After an hour so, Paris went back for a nap, she still can't nap at a crowded place. Hubby brought her and my helper home then came back and joined us. It was a joyful event, people giving their blessing to baby Javier. He has got big eyes and is a tall baby, haha. Glad that my pal had did a good confinement this time round, and hope jingyang can be a gd and healthy baby.
Sunday we attended Jiamin's daughter 2yrs old birthday. They held a steamboat dinner, and it was a sumptuous one! The fishes were very fresh, and i like the curry alot! Princeton boy ate one big bowl of fish rice too. The place was crowded and hot.... bcoz of the steamboat, all of us were sweating. We took some photos, and Princeton boy was busy eating his fishball, doesn't want to take photos. Hubby got angry over this, as his son was not cooperating. He punished Tian by pulling him to the kitchen and threw away his fishball. Princeton cried and got very upset over it. I wasn't pleased of course:( Come on lah, he didn't do any big mistakes, he just didn't look at the camera that's all! Why make a big fuss?! In the end, Princeton mood was fouled, and he kept wanting me to carry. I was coaxing Paris at the same time, as she wanted me to carry her to zzz. In the end i got to pass her over to the maid, and my poor gal screamed badly:( Both the lil Ps are my superglue... A gd thing, maid still able to handle Paris, if not I'm doomed. Whenever Princeton got upset, he would want me to carry him... He felt ashamed to be punished outside, that's why he wanted to hide "inside" me.I just felt hubby was too harsh. There's really no need to throw away his fishball and make him upset like that. Not as if he was throwing tantrums or he jump on the sofa, no manners etc. He doesn't want to look at the camera bcoz he wanted to eat his fishball! Please, our boy is not GOD, he cannot be perfect. Be thankful your son can sit still to have his meal, well mannered to call people, and can apologize when he is sorry. Don't take it for granted that all children have to be in this way. Be appreciative when our children are well behaved.
My poor boy is so upset the whole night. Just hope hubby won't take put too much stress on the children. I understand that we cannot spoilt the kids, as this daddy dislike toddlers being spoon feed and dislike children who are wild and stubborn. There was one time Princeton refused to put his shoes on the shoe rack and got caned. After which, Princeton always placed his shoes properly before he dashed to his playground. Yup, this i agreed with hubby that we gonna teach them the proper way. But the camera incident i felt it's too trivial. Most of the time Princeton will be cooperative to take photos, only that time bcoz he was eating his fav fishball that's y he doesn't want to take. Discuss and told zhenyu my point, and he promised next time he would not make a big hoo ha about small matters.
Hubby went for 10days sailing on Sunday midnight. I drove him to Changi Naval Base at 4am. The journey was really long.... and i almost dozed off! I'm struggling with my exams revision alone:( Zhenyu usually will revise with me, and helped me with my notes. Haiz.... felt so lonely lol. He will be back on the 20th, hopefully earlier:) We all missed you daddy!
