Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Yingxin 2nd &3rd Lesson

Her friends called her BABY.... i guessed she still look like one. haha... i believe she and the other Malay girl were the youngest there. The rest were over 24 months. Yes, and also the shortest in class:p

She was indeed too young to go to 'school'. Good attempt to sit still on her first day, but yesterday and today she was distracted. Some of her friends sat on the chairs, and she wanted to follow as well. Instead of sitting on the floor for the storytelling. She did well for her craft work, enjoyed painting alot. haha... Overall, i thought she was OK, can't expect much from a 21months 'BABY'. At least she did not whine or cry, and did not try to 'escape' from the door. Hopefully she can learn better as she grows...
To be frank, i felt tired, and neck strained these few days. Because her lesson is at 9am sharp, i got to wake up at 730 to prepare breakfast, bath and get them ready. Paris can call mummy very clearly and always knock at my door to look for me. Luckily she still stick to the maid, although i am always her first choice.

No parents can be perfect, not even our fingers are of the same length. But again, we tried our best to be fair. I'm blessed to have one boy and one girl. Naturally, i would dote Tian more, because he was the first child. And logically, i will bring the older one out more often because he is old enough to see and understand. I love my princess alot too, and would spend as much effort on her.

Sorry to be blunt, but i felt if we can't give the children the attention and love they need, then don't 'kay kiang' (act smart) to give birth so many. Many people can't even handle one, and yet they wanted to have a second one. Proper planning is necessary,if not we might ended up with 'financial crisis' or nobody to take care, or unfairness took place etc.

Hopefully parents can be responsible for their children, and remember that no one is obligated to help us to take care of our children.