To be frank, i felt tired, and neck strained these few days. Because her lesson is at 9am sharp, i got to wake up at 730 to prepare breakfast, bath and get them ready. Paris can call mummy very clearly and always knock at my door to look for me. Luckily she still stick to the maid, although i am always her first choice.
No parents can be perfect, not even our fingers are of the same length. But again, we tried our best to be fair. I'm blessed to have one boy and one girl. Naturally, i would dote Tian more, because he was the first child. And logically, i will bring the older one out more often because he is old enough to see and understand. I love my princess alot too, and would spend as much effort on her.
Sorry to be blunt, but i felt if we can't give the children the attention and love they need, then don't 'kay kiang' (act smart) to give birth so many. Many people can't even handle one, and yet they wanted to have a second one. Proper planning is necessary,if not we might ended up with 'financial crisis' or nobody to take care, or unfairness took place etc.
Hopefully parents can be responsible for their children, and remember that no one is obligated to help us to take care of our children.