Waited sooo long for today, haha!! Yeah, finally its hubby payday! I'm "jobless" now, so alot of things need zhenyu to settle for me lol. Hubby said, Payday is Pay Everything Day, keke....Yesterday, zhenyu brought us to Science Centre, Sakura for dinner, took a walk there as well. Initially he was quite reluntant to bring Princeton out. If he told me, let tian rest at home, better... he is going to recover faster. Maybe i will just stay at home. In the end, his reason was, "better dont bring him out, later he very noisy n grouchy, then we very 麻烦." . I was very disappointed when i heard this. Angry as well. I told him, explained to him, as parents, we cannot allow ourselves to be afraid of such situation. We must learn how to cope, how to handle. NOT to avoid. Bcoz, Whatever you Resist, WILL persist. And its forever. It applies to every part of your life. Told him this long time ago, he forgotten again! hmmp. 
My helper did not came along with us, as last few nites she didn't get enough rest, so we decided to let her rest at home. My theory is very simple, we cannot rely on maid forever. I don't want to make her feel indispensable. We should be able to handle our own child. That is why usually weekends we will spend 三人世界.
Anyway, Princeton was well behaved yesterday. We had a good dinner, and both daddy n son ate alot. Princeton ate more than me i thought. My appetite was quite bad these few days, the food i saw really makes me felt more nausea:( My girl preferred homemade food.
I really hope that Zhenyu can be more positive towards Princeton's behaviour, 
and spend more effort in it. If we want our child to be patient, we gona be patient first. People see that i am very impatient towards my hubby.... wah liew....pls... u all don't understand why is it so.. Alot of things he needs me to remind n remind him again. ALot of things, he needs me to repeat n repeat again. I am like a recorder, replay n replay. At times, i will get fed up lol. Some more, his hearing got abit problem, i talk to him in normal tone, he cannot hear. He needs me to talk louder. So please don't be mistaken that i am shouting at him, i am not :p
and spend more effort in it. If we want our child to be patient, we gona be patient first. People see that i am very impatient towards my hubby.... wah liew....pls... u all don't understand why is it so.. Alot of things he needs me to remind n remind him again. ALot of things, he needs me to repeat n repeat again. I am like a recorder, replay n replay. At times, i will get fed up lol. Some more, his hearing got abit problem, i talk to him in normal tone, he cannot hear. He needs me to talk louder. So please don't be mistaken that i am shouting at him, i am not :p Everyday, hubby will ask me do i love him? haha... he is like a little kid. Need ppl to tell him, and assure him. Of course I love him! But i must love my children more now, hee... So at times will neglect him abit. He needs me to remind him to drink plently of water/vit C, to make sure he eats on time,to force him to have an early nite. Is my responsiblity to keep my hubby healthy :)
I told him for his coming birthday, we will go to his dream place, Intergrated Resort Casino! He was so delighted... Little things can make him happy, little things can make his day. This is what i like about him. Simple n easy to understand :) 
