Sunday, February 12, 2012

Sunday, Tays Quality Time ",)

Woke up by the LiL Ps at 7am this morning. Hubby was awake very early too, (i guess he set alarm clock, as maid will be leaving the house at 830am) Even though Paris and maid were always together. But they were never close. Paris waved goodbye to her when she saw Clarence's outfit. My gem knew maid is going out:)

If my children sticks to maid or my mum more than they want me, i would felt I'm a failure. Of course i need a helper to ease my burden, so whenever Paris is grouchy, maid is able to handle. I learnt to let go, if not will end up like Princeton, whereby only i can pacify him.

Hubby don't involved much in handling the children. Bcoz he is busy at work, plus his recent schedule becoming a shift work (due to Spore Aircraft show). But at least weekends, or whenever he off, he only spend his time with us and nothing else. Yes, he is very blurred, and very forgetful. If you see how he changed clothes for Paris, you might laugh your jaws out. The new dress my sis bought for the Lil Ps, Zhenyu wore the cardigan inside, and the whole dress he thought was bottom dress. 

Don't get misunderstood... i only nag for fun. I knew i got the world best husband, and i am trying to do my best to be a good wife as well as a responsible mother. 

We prepared the children and brought them to Vivo city for dim sum. Crystal Jade needs to wait half an hour, which i will never want to wait. hee.... To me, i don't like to wait or q up or good food. Unless with friends, i will compromise. If not, i don't feel the need to wait, there are one hundred and one other restaurants. So we went to The Bosses instead. 

This is our third time there. But first time for the dim sum! Zhenyu like it, and say it's better than Crystal Jade. We got another choice for morning breakfast next time. Tian&Xin both likes the Pork Congee alot. They both can finished one whole bowl. After eating, we head to Singkids (again) Been one month since we last brought them to an indoor playground, hee... The weather was scorching hot today, and last few weeks! So there's no chance to bring them for outside sports. Waiting for a cloudy day to bring them out for a swim. 

Left around 4pm, i wanted to have Bak Ku Teh for dinner. Therefore hubby drove to Alexandra food market, we dabao home. He needed to rush to Changi Airport at 6.30 for his duty. It will last till the next morning 8am. He was sorry that 14th Vday will be gone, bcoz he is on duty for the whole day. I assured him, it's ok. To me, Vday really means nothing. It's just another marketing strategy for businesses to make more money. Yes, hubby always send me Sun flower during dating times. And sun flower is the most expensive type, instead of roses. But now, i really don't see the need for all these extravagant spending. I only want him to love my children as much as he dote me. That's all i asked for. He said he never can do that. Dot dot.... I don't need big diamonds, big golds, just give me more money for my children. haha. 

The happiest thing is to see Tian&Xin having good appetite. To see they eat alot and be healthy. Both just had a big bowl of rice with brewed soup. Now they are having animal biscuits with fruit juices. The other day, Xiaolin was asking me to take note of Tian's weight, make sure he don't get overweight. HAHA!!! Tian is 105cm and weigh 20kg. Amazingly he is of ideal weight! For his height, 32 kg then considered overweight. I am confident, as long he don't get obsess with tidbits and junk food, he will not become an obese child.

I had seen many children having problem with meals. They dislike rice and porridge, hate noodles and cereals. Only like biscuits, ice cream,chocolates and deep fried stuffs. These either makes them fat and unhealthy, or makes them under nutritious, becoming thin and underweight. Children will see us as a motivator. Whatever we eat, encourage them to try as well. I'm thankful Tian loves soup as much as his dad. And Paris like vegetables just like me. 

To me, as long they finished their decent meal, whatever tidbits they eat is fine. But definitely no tidbits before main meal. 

 Continue putting weight my LiL Ps! 

When we on the way home, both KO in the car, carried them back still deep asleep lol. Exhausted ^^   

Dinner @ Han's Chevrons


Jasline, my secondary school buddy called me yesterday. She wanted to meet us for dinner today. I agreed, and tried asking May and Xiaolin along too. But they couldn't make it.

We had dinner at Han's. Order quite alot of food:) Glad that the LiL Ps enjoyed the companion of Jas &Mic. They like to play with children alot. Paris is getting more sociable to her surrounding people. No longer behave like a mountain turtle, whereby she was scared and started crying whenever people get near her. Paris especially love babies as well as toddlers. She would touch their faces and hands to be friends. Jasline asked me, are you very happy all the passerby praised you got two lovely children? I replied her, saying yes i am happy, and i appreciated God's gift. 

We went to the mini library after dinner, and the place was rather crowded with older children. Princeton was very impatient when people took away his toys, and got agitated when 3 girls gang up against him. I don't blame other children at all, even though they appeared to be much more older, i can't expect they give in to Princeton. Princeton just got to learn to be more patient, and choose to play other toys. 


 Children fighting is really very common. Just let them be, and i would only step in when Princeton beat others physically, or vice visa. If everything we need to get involved, i doubt they can solve nuts in the future. I detest parents who always think their child is God, King, Emperor. Only your child can scream, can play loudly, can shout happily. The rest cannot? Only dumb and mute children don't do that. Children bound to be noisy, bound to play wildly. As long they don't go violent, everything is fine. So let's open out our heart, accept all children, like they are ours.

Jasline said, next time when she got her own child, she wanted to bring them everywhere like me. I was delighted that she started with a positive mindset. Do hope to hear her good news soon:) 

Tomorrow is Sunday, Family Day! Hubby is going to bring us out for dim sum and shopping. Gave maid off day tmr as well, anyway we won't be at home. Happy weekend everyone!