Yesterday i brought my Princeton to JP shopping. Together with mum and my new helper Clarence. Actually my main purpose was to go for pedicure... as tmr i will be attending junjie's wedding. I had sleepless nite again.. plenty of thoughts in mind. Wondering how's dearie sailing, wat else should i buy for my boy? Mum's bladder not feeling well.. when will i earn enough to give my family a better life? Hoping next yr can have a family overseas trip together.
Everyday i wanted to make full use of the day for my little prince. But i feel that im not as ethusiatic when zhenyu is around with me. Told myself later i will teach tian tian how to read from flash cards.Sometimes ppl asked me, how do u choose a life partner? b4 i gave up my ex bf bcoz i choosen zhenyu, main reason of course is the comfortable feeling which i cant find in others. A couple needs to share the same goal, to have a common purpose. Personality and character is up to one to accept. If u can accept, u can love. For us upbringing is quite different.. i'm not trying to say hubby upbringing is not good, just tat its not sometin i like. Tats y even if i have a second child, i wont let my in laws to take care.
As a couple, we need to give each other support and console, we will share happiness and sorrow. We will give the best to each other, and to love wat our partners love. (of course tis is subjective) Eg, my hubby loves my mum alot, coz i love my mum alot.
People talks about marriage as if they r buying things. Talks about divorcing as if is their own business. Both situation is never only between the two of u. It definately affect ur family. So b4 u say I DO, pls tell urself, in 50yrs down the road, u will have to face this person the moment u open ur eyes.
