Looking back from how we got to know each other ~ From our first chat phone call, to our first meet up, to our first date, marriage and children.... we had gone through a high & low peak of 15 solid years. We got to know each other when i was in secondary 3. We were of very good friends, and often chat through phone calls for hours. We got together when i was in Poly First Year, ie when i was 18. The toughest time in my life, due to the tragic of my brother. Zhenyu stood firm by my side, just like my pillar of strength. I am glad, and i am proud i am his first woman in life, that is his first girlfriend. The first girl whom he brought home to see his parents:)
We dated for 7 years, only then he was ready to propose to me:) We spend one whole year in planning our Wedding, and all our savings in building up our dream wedding banquet, our ideal honeymoon, our first new car, and our 5 room flat. All these came true because we had the same goal, direction and frequency!
My wedding and housing planning processes were the most exciting and memorable memories for me. Basically i did nothing, but enjoyed my moment of being the happiest bride! The only thing i did was to choose my jiemeis, and give hubby my guest list. Many thanks that i got help of Uncle William and the brother's coordination that day. Best of all, my sis to settle my wedding gown and accessories! Because we flew to Europe for honeymoon the very next morning:p
Throughout these years, of course there were ups and downs, so long my smiles could cover up the frowns. heehee... Whatever i asked for, will be given. Whenever i'm pissed off, there will be sorry. Wherever i am, he will always be there to pick me up. When i'm unreasonable, he kept quiet. When i'm sad, he tells a stupid joke. When i'm confused, he lead me to a direction. I got nothing more to ask from this wonderful guy. Thank you for your everlasting love, your enduring patience, your marvelous tolerance, and your unconditional commitment to me and the family. Please pardon me for all my bad doings, my ugly side, and my numerous mistakes.
Today as both of us look back
with happiness and pride
upon the 15 cherished years
that we've spent side by side,
May every memory that we share
of dreams we've seen come true,
help make this special Golden day
with happiness and pride
upon the 15 cherished years
that we've spent side by side,
May every memory that we share
of dreams we've seen come true,
help make this special Golden day
for you. Happy Wedding Anniverary Zhenyu!
