The arrival of Jaden Bong

November 21st 0226, my best pal kai Fang had received her little Jaden at NUH. We went to the hospital and pay her a visit in the evening around 8pm. Coz zhenyu was back late, if not we would have reach in the afternoon.

Jaden looks more like wentong... but jaden's lip was exactly like kai fang. haha.... next time aso can talk as fast as his mum. KF did not engaged any confinement lady, so i told her she would have a tough time at night. Even though her MIL is helping her, but i dont tink MIL will help up at night time. For tat one month is the most important period for her, so i really hope she can rest well, if not den we will grow old very fast.

Today zhenyu and i brought princeton to Marina Square. Shopping centre is cooling, and this chubby enjoyed it! We meet up with sis and siyong, shop awhile, and bought some new yr clothing for princeton. haha... kind of early, but the baby clothes looks so nice, so we just bought first lor.

Next sat we will be going to genting... really hope i can enjoy. Coz i will miss my prince so badly for 4days............

Day 3 & 4 without zhenyu

Just came back from junjie and joey's wedding dinner... (191108). Luckily tmr i don't need to work. Quite tiring today, as i slept at 3am the nite b4. Coz i was watching the HK drama series.

It was a rainy day, and e traffic was real jam. I reached on time at 630pm... hee. so scared i lost my way. So b4 i exit aye, faster gave danny a call and confirm the directions. Seng was there much earlier than i expected. We attended JJ's ROm session, den hang around at the cocktail area. joey's look so slim lor. Her gown was great too.

The food is not bad, quantity aso enough. Very kind of danny, to peel the prawns for me :) Just tat i found tat the female Emcee can wear nicer gown. keke.. The ceiling of the ballroom was kind of low. I still think tat ballroom with high ceiling would have better ambience. Danny and john left early as they are preparing for their exams. When i was about to leave, i saw someone very very familar....... i can't be sure if i seen wrongly, until i heard her voice! She was diana, my polymate. We were in the same class for 3 years! She had slim down alot, even prettier now. How come nowadays all my gal friends can slim down so easily ah... ahyo..

Me and seng were the last two guests to leave the ballroom.. haha. chat alot. Without zhenyu's companion, this wedding is not as bored as i thought. Unless is a very gd friend, den i will attend the dinner alone. If not, without zhenyu, most likely i will not go lor. Very happi to see this friend of mine had settle down. Junjie and joey, i give my blessing to the both of u. Hopefully we can have more gatherings in the future!

Day 2 without zhenyu

Yesterday i brought my Princeton to JP shopping. Together with mum and my new helper Clarence. Actually my main purpose was to go for pedicure... as tmr i will be attending junjie's wedding.

I had sleepless nite again.. plenty of thoughts in mind. Wondering how's dearie sailing, wat else should i buy for my boy? Mum's bladder not feeling well.. when will i earn enough to give my family a better life? Hoping next yr can have a family overseas trip together.

Everyday i wanted to make full use of the day for my little prince. But i feel that im not as ethusiatic when zhenyu is around with me. Told myself later i will teach tian tian how to read from flash cards.

Sometimes ppl asked me, how do u choose a life partner? b4 i gave up my ex bf bcoz i choosen zhenyu, main reason of course is the comfortable feeling which i cant find in others. A couple needs to share the same goal, to have a common purpose. Personality and character is up to one to accept. If u can accept, u can love. For us upbringing is quite different.. i'm not trying to say hubby upbringing is not good, just tat its not sometin i like. Tats y even if i have a second child, i wont let my in laws to take care.

As a couple, we need to give each other support and console, we will share happiness and sorrow. We will give the best to each other, and to love wat our partners love. (of course tis is subjective) Eg, my hubby loves my mum alot, coz i love my mum alot.

People talks about marriage as if they r buying things. Talks about divorcing as if is their own business. Both situation is never only between the two of u. It definately affect ur family. So b4 u say I DO, pls tell urself, in 50yrs down the road, u will have to face this person the moment u open ur eyes.

Day 1 without zhenyu

Last fri we went to rent some dvd.. watched with hubby till 1am. Sat morning, he went back camp and do some stuff. He came back in the afternoon, and bring our boy out for shopping at Lot one. At about 5plus, we bring Princeton hm, as he was tired... A promised, i accompany dearie to sakura for dinner. He was thinking of this buffet for a long time.

We had all the ex food of course. My favourite salmon, and unagi! Oysters, scallop!

We did not eat 100% full, coz we learn our lesson the last time! haha... At 8pm, we went hm already. Sun, tat was yesterday, we brought Princeton to the church! This is the first time ya... Me and dearie accompany baby at the nursery, while sis,mum and siyong were at the hall.

The music was kind of loud, but the babies there can sleep wor. haah.. I'm glad we brought Princeton there, coz felt tat we had received God blessing. After service, we went to bugis! The women went for foot massage, while the men bring the baby go for a stroll. After dinner we head hm le.. as usual, Princeton slept soundly till the next day.

I drove dear to the camp last nite at 10pm.. while reaching camp, we saw a body lying in the middle of the road! we were so shocked, stopped the car, and went down to take a look. A car behind us aso stopped. An indian lady fainted. We later saw another indian guy riding a bicycle towards us. He said tat was his wife, but did not say y was she lying there.

Dearie and the other car owner, together with tat indian guy, carry tat lady to one side of the road. We asked if there's a need to call 995, he said it's ok. We drove off den.

Today is my off day.. but zhenyu not around. he'll be back on fri. Next yr, he'll post out of ship to the workshop. I'm so glad, so tat he can have more time with the family.

My off day finally!

Been yearning for this day... finally tmr is my rest day! But gona go back to the bank and open the door, as i am on duty. Actually can asked ppl to help me, but on a second thought dont feel like it. Better do it myself, as i dont like to owe others a favour.

Today is the first day DBS annoucing the retrenchment. Sad to say... my manager received the bad news. Well, her salary i guess is no less than 8k.. n she is 57 this yr, n had worked for the bank for 30yrs. With the retrenchment benefit she can get around 300k. So if i were her, i really hope for retrenchment, haha.

This coming weekend will be the precious days with zhenyu. As he will be sailing next whole week. I'll be on leave till thurs, so will also make use of the fullest to accompany Princeton. He is coming to six months soon, time flies! Princeton is eating brown rice with milk now, still in liquid form, but a little thicker. I gave him some cereal with milk aso, and he like it. I bought some premium honey from Hock Hua Tonic at JP. Plus the America Ginseng too... A little bit each day for my Prince. Cost me 200 bucks ah...

Wanna get him a walker soon, so tat he can train on his legs. My MIL said she wanted to buy for him. So i told dearie to go hint her, hehe.

Junjie's wedding is next wed.. and im going alone. haiz.. unless is a close friend, if not i wont attend wedding alone lor. Bought a new dress for tat day, ha... everytime when there's a function i will wear new dress. So u won't see me in the same dress during wedding dinner.

ok time to sleep, hope for a gdnite sweet dreamz.

Booking of Genting Trip

Been a long time since we last visit Genting. As dear enjoy the thrill at casino, so we decided to go there again. Actually the initial intention was to visit Macau, but my leave is only 4days. Mayb next yr bah... Book the executive coach, hopefully its really more comfortable. going on the 29th, coming back on the 3rd.

My best pal May will deliver on the 5th, if the baby is out early, den i will visit her at her place. Haiz, DBS is going to cut cost by retrenching 900 ppl... dont know y DBS so kaypoh, everytin aso like to publish on the news. My friends in OCBC, UOB and even Citibank told mi their banks are going to retrench ppl too. Den how come its not in the news?! Well, for mi, if im really so lucky to get tat letter, den no choice, i gona retrench my helper and i stay at hm lol. haha... jus kidding.

Im glad Mike's operation is successful.. i really want to pay him a visit. Will go over next fri.. coz i'll be on leave for a week :)

Tmr dear is on duty again. We'll be going over sis's place in the afternoon.. My little Prince likes to go out! He can recognise me already.. Yesterday when we went over my in law's place, when i pass him over to my FIL, Princeton cried immediately... den i quickly took over, he stopped. haha! He needs time to adapt, after warming up, he gets used to it...

Always feel proud of my son. In my eyes, he shines out like a precious stone. God pls bless my Princeton and my family wif good health and happiness.

So exhausted...

Its only tue today.. i'm really tired. There are too many ppl so free, and likes to come to the bank. The updating machine breakdown, and i became the machine for the day. Cant they just update their books another time? if u want to update ur book today, den q up la. Complain so much, nobody ask u to come in rite. Machine breakdown aso because of u ppl, stupid wat, push the passbook in to the machine in the wrong way, den in the end jammed up the whole thing... i always update my passbook at the machine and i dont see any problem. Coz some ppl just dont have common sense, push and push the passbook in, serve them rite when the book is stuck inside.

Last nite dreamt of so many things... let mi once again realise how important to love my family, and my friends. I missed ah boy alot (my brother who passed away 8yrs ago)... everytime when i tin of him, my heart shattered. Recently, sis health aso no gd, diarrhoea for afew days already still have not recovered. My ex navy colleague, Mike, tmr he will be having operation, to remove the tumour next to his heart. I really hope everything will go smooth. He is a good person, kind hearted, good temper, good looking too! God, i sincerely pray that u will give ur blessing to Mike, and let him go through this operation sucessfully.

Tats why i always nag at Mr Tay (hubby). He likes to drink coke, coffee, tea... He likes to eat curry, fast food etc. Super likes to eat chilli padi... yes i know tat is a kind of vege too, its healthy, but not with the seeds together! Told him so many times, the seeds will stay inside the small intestine, it cannot be digest. Sooner or later ur intestine will have serious blockage, den the consequences u bear.

Then somemore he always eat so salty. Some times he just dont know his wife care for him alot. (i doubt he'll read my blog) Everyday, he'll drink vitamin C, at least sometin gd. I dont like him to sleep late, so every nite, if i sleep, i make sure he'll sleep too. Unless its a sat nite, hubby will sleep late, he either will play computer chess or watch tv, coz its the oni day he can stay up.

Today he went for 2days sailing, i bet his dinner will be big mac again.. haiz. kind of miss him.. been thinking of our trip end of the month. Though we are giving up the idea of macau, and to genting instead, but i think it will be an enjoyable trip too.

Sec Friends dinner gathering... 021108

May, gladys and jeremy came over my place yesterday afternoon... to visit Princeton. B4 tat, at about 1230pm, i went over maid agency to receive my helper. Her name is Clarence, abit difficult to pronouce for my mum.

She is not as pretty as my ex helper, and she is a slower learner too. But is ok, as long as she is willing to learn, i'm patient enough to teach. I planned a time table for her too, tat includes rules and regulation.

I'm very happi for gladys, congrats! :) :) :) May due next month, and very soon, gladys will join us in the motherhood group! haha... come over my place more often, carry princeton more often, den soon ur dream will come true, keke....

We brought princeton out for dinner together, at swensens IMM. Princeton so

happi lor. Though he was kindof tired towards the end of the day. Hope my Princeton can have a baby sister soon :)