Princeton growing up...

Today marks my Princeton 8months old. I end work late today again.. i guess everyday will off work not earlier than 6.30pm. As my new manager likes to have a debrief with everyone at the end of the day, sian.

When the debrief ended today, i took a cab home, as dearie is on duty today. First thing when i reached home, i called "Princeton Boy!" Immediately he stretch his neck from the baby cot and said ahhh.... Trying to call me! I carried him and he was so happy. Princeton kept smiling at me, and he tried to kiss me too, hee. I put him in the playground and spend some playtime with him. He could crawl well in circles, as well as backwards. But still can't crawl forward.... He kept trying to sit up while he was lying down. Princeton likes to suck his toe nails now.. haha. He drinks alot and sweat alot too.

A pity that my boy don't have much hair. hmm... like his dad, oppos. Luckily he's like me, fair and fat (haiz). Tmr need to go to the ntuc again. Princeton fav Frisocream finished le. His brown rice running low too. And his diapers too! This cny, Princeton collected about $650 ang baos. I'm going to open an account for him this weekend :)

CNY period

Happy cny to u. Just a blink, there goes the first and second day of the cny... I had plenty of thoughts in mind, and i really like to spill everything out. Let me start from my second reunion dinner which was on the 230109. My first one is with uncle william rem? My second dinner was at my place. My mum cooked a feast, curry, fish, sea cucumber duck, abalone brocoli, my fav lotus soup. On the 240109 sat, mum also cook very nice food for me and zhenyu. On the actual day, eve of cny which happened to be a sunday. We both slept till late afternoon, stay at home and catch some dvd together. After tat, took a nap coz still feel sick actually. My fever just recovered. At about 3.30pm, this zhenyu woke me up, pestered me to go and bath and to get prepared. He said we have to reach my inlaws place by 5pm. I was thinking, huh, so early ah? Okok..... i dragged myself out of the bed even though my head is still quite dizzy.

B4 we were about to reach, my bro in law, david still msg and rush us, see if we were about to reach. Tat time we were about to go out, and told him, yes we're reaching. Less than 10 mins, we reached le. Coz live nearby only, plus dearie is a fast driver. To our astonishment, they had EATEN! MY FIL, MIL and TAT BRO IN LAW HAD ALL EATEN! Without us. Yes without us. I'm really fed up, super fed up! Hubby was also very angry, and kept asking my mil why they eat first. I'm too angry, and told hubby to shut up don't asked anymore.

Zhenyu is a person, forget about unhappiness very quickly. Me, a person who bear grudges. I din eat much, just eat a little bit, told them i'm full. Obviously i'm angry. But my mil stil can laugh and laugh say sorry ah, we are hungry so we eat first. BASKET, u all don't know wat is call a reunion dinner is it? Next time , NEVER expect me to come early! I will rem this day forever. Don't expect me to bring Princeton over for reunion dinner, see my mood! I'll go overseas during cny if i got extra money next yr!

I used to wear a mask, even though i may not feel happi infront of my inlaws, but they really gone too far this time. Many times, if not bcoz of zhenyu, i think i would really turn nasty. And that bro in law, i also got nothing to say about him. I try to be nice, so don't take me for granted. Do everything think of my princeton first, get him hurt in anyways again, then u guys can forget about seeing him in future. I'm not those daughter in law who can be so so so submissive. Everything also listen to their inlaws, everything also bo bian, no choice etc. NO! I don't need to depend on inlaws for money, i don't need them to give me a job for living, i don't live under their roof, i don't need them to take care of my princeton, i don't need them to tell me wat to do. BECAUSE, i'm the parent, and i hold the decision. Beside zhenyu, the rest please shut up.

Fever 40.4!

Never had such high fever in my life... 40.4degree! Actually i started coughing on monday already. I guessed its the freezing cafe at MS tat caused me to be sick. Yesterday was my off day. I kept coughing and my flu was really bad. I thought some panadol for fever and flu might help. Therefore i didn't go to the doctor. Brought Princeton for his routine injection instead, but i kept at least one metre from him.

This morning, i almost fainted when i was bathing. Felt really dizzy and my whole body was burning. I knew i was running a fever. B4 i reported to work, i went to the clinic next to the bank. I was shocked when the doc told me tat my fever was 40.4! She wanted to give me an injection, but i rejected. hmm... coz i'm afraid i would be preggy. The doc offered to do me a pregnancy test and i agreed. hee... false alarm. After i rec my medicine and MC, i went back to work. I thought i could endured. Coz i told myself tat i wouldn't want to take anymore MC. Anyway i'm off again tmr. My throat sored till i could not even talk.My fever did not subside at all.. In the end my officer told me to go hm and rest. When i reached home this morning, i collasped on the bed. My body was full of cold sweat, and i kept coughing. I really thought i was going to die. Slept the whole day, but my head is still spinning in pain. Mum do everything she could, she boiled this boiled tat, all the herbal drink, glucose water etc. But no sign of recovery.. In the end, she took me to the clinic, and i had an injection. My fever was as bad, 39.. hope tonite i can sleep well. Friday by hook or by crook i got to be back for work.

Cny is coming, and i'm in such bad condition. Quarantine myself in the bedroom, don't even dare to go to the living room. I can be sick but not my boy. My Princeton is very brave, teething did not suffer from any fever. He is still drinking well too. He is now 73cm, 9.3kg :)

Reunion Dinner @ uncle william's house

Yesterday, our family had a pre-reunion dinner at uncle william's house. This uncle was the youngest in the family, my dad youngest brother. And very proud to say, he is the richest among the 6 brothers. I once worked for him, i tin is 3yrs back. It was a very gd experience to learn in the jewellery sector. But due to some personal reason, i quit. Felt very gulity as i know both uncle and aunt pin high hopes in me. Join DBS after tat, anyway i'm doing good now.

Though uncle william is very rich, but there are prices to be pay. His health is quite bad, n is on medication term now. But last evening when i saw him, he looks very energentic! Pray hard tat uncle will live till 100. We had a sumptous dinner! not only steamboat, uncle bought two pots of "peng cai", with my fav abolone! I ate two big ones!

My two brother cousins were with us too. The elder one Nelson, with long hair, longer than sis i think. The second one Andrew, neat and decent, vegeterian. My third cousin can't make it for the dinner as he was working. Three brothers, three very very different looks and characters. Compared my first and second cousins. The first one, smoke, drinks alot, 100% meat eater. Bro andrew is a buddism, vegeterian, hates smoking and drinking, very health concious. ALways remind me not to eat too many instant noodles.

We had fun together yesterday. Played WII together, and challenged each other. haha... all so old liao still enjoy playing games. Uncle william is a game fan! He had the most updated games lol. Princeton can sleep soundly even though we made so much noise. He was tooo shag tired.

Enjoyed yesterday, me and zhenyu were deadbeat. I just woke up 2pm, not long ago. hee... later going over my inlaws place for dinner. Tmr we will be meeting with my ex navy friends at cityhall. Hope it will be fun too :)

Hubby is back, finally!

Specially took leave today as dear will be back. Woke up at 9am, bath and get myself prepared. Hubby called me at 10plus, said tat i could come over and fetch him now. I'm so excited and happi. Mum tag along, as she wanna a ride to clementi.

At the same time i was pretty upset about hubby's fall. He fell down in the ship, while the seastate was terrible. He lost balance, and hit his left rib. It was a big bruise... We went to NUH for xray. As usual, waited about 3hrs for the whole procedure. Had lunch at NUH.. dear miss his fav laksa. After the doc had examined him, luckily there's no visible fracture. Should there be any chest pain, loss of breathe, dizzy, numbness, we have to go back asap.

Just reached home, now is about 4pm plus.Our Princeton is sooo delighted to see dad. Zhenyu had a slight flu, so did not carry him for too long. Later we'll be going for movie at 8pm. Just the both e us. Wanna have a gd time with zhenyu :)

Oh ya, this is wat dearie bought for me, i like it! very nice wor... thks dear!

Shopping with mum

Just came back from jurong point NTUC, my favourite place :) Went there to shop for new year groceries with mum. Not for myself, but for my grandma. Every cny, i will buy lots of new yr goods over to her place. Though i am not very close with my grandma, as we have some conversation problem ya. She can't hear well, and i can't speak her dialect (i know i'm lousy).

Even so, i do a little part to buy some things for her. Grandma is 90++ already, hope she can stay as healthy. My mum dotes grandma alot, often go over and accompany her. Mum also bought our favourite abolone! Cny a sure dish for us! I miss mum's reunion dinner.. Can compared to those in the hotel! This yr we will still have mum's cooking, but its on the 24th.

Dear dear is coming back soon :p Fri fri will be here. First thing i wanna him to accompany me for movie! The Red Cliff! Second, i wanna him to spend all his time with Princeton! The rest of the thing den come in lol. Hubby said he bought something i like very much. hehe... can't think wat is it leh. Coz the thing tat i like is only money lol. If not diamond lol... keke.

Wait till he comes back, he'll see his precious crawling in circle!

12/1 sister n siyong home dinner (Princeton 7months 2weeks)

Yesterday evening, sis came over my place to have dinner. Mummy cooked for us... still homemade food is the best. Siyong reached around 10pm lol. He went for soccer at Fico. By the time he reached, i was about to sleep soon, so din talk much to him, paiseh ah..

Sis and mum played with Princeton. Look wat have they done to him, ahyo. Feed him the new yogurt that i bought. But he don't really like. Mayb its abit sour. Coz its apple and banana flavour. I will let him try the pear flavour tmr.

Everyday when i came home its about 7pm. Always feel so tired, didn't spend enough time with Princeton also. Felt very guilty... i slept at 10.30 or latest 11 at nite. If i sleep later than tat, the next day i surely headache. Therefore weekend to me very important. Would definately bring baby out.

I wanna make it a habit to bring princeton to the church every sunday. To let him interact with other children, and to have God's blessing of course. Hopefully i can have dear's support, coz i believe we both would want the best for our child.

Fulfilling sunday

Woke up at 8am this morning. Bath, dry my hair, light make up, waiting for May to pick me up. We went to kk together, as i planned. Felt so much relieved that jaden is able to drink milk now. When we reached, May's MIL was there. She stayed overnight to look after jaden, as wentong had to work. She is indeed a very responsible grandma... dotes jaden sooo much.

May will be there for jaden from morning till night. We had breakfast together at mac.. long time didn't have hotcakes le. My zhenyu likes it very much lol. We were with jaden, chatting at the same time. Untill 2pm plus den i left... took a bus to bugis for foot reflexology. hehe... after tat took a cab to SGH, visit my FIL. They were at the foodcourt when i reached. Omg, that zhenxiang (my bro in law) shared a bowl of mee siam with my FIL. Both of them must be mad, how can my fil eat such things after his ops? He should learn to take care of father, esp when it comes to meal. Though the ops was very successful, but doesn't mean u can anyhow eat! I nagged so much also don't listen, hopeless. Wait till dearie is back, den let dear nag at them.

Father was recovering well, he could walk by himself now. But i think he felt abit moody. As wat i read in books, paitients after ops will feel moody and upset aso. Mood swing do happens. Actually wanted to bring my princeton over to see him, but come to a second thought, hospitals are full of germs, better not. Wait till father is discharged, den i bring baby over their place. Coz nothing, nothing is more important than my Princeton's health.

At about 630, zhenxiang drove us back home. I came home, changed tian tian, den we went to jurong point for dinner. Shop at the kiddy palace, spend 100+ again. Bought some cereals, some biscuits, some new yogurt for my boy. I also grabbed some education dvd for him, hope that it could add some varieties for him. I don't want him to be bored at home. Today is a very fulfilling sunday. Just tat zhenyu is not with us... if not it will be so wonderful. He is coming back this fri, yeah. Princeton and i miss him so so badly.

Car brokedown...

End work at 3 today.. not so bad, as i suppose to lock up the branch today, but my colleague wanna stay back, so he locked up for me. Called sister to meet up early evening. So when i reached home, bath, prepare Princeton then i drove the car down.

In the end, when i tried to start the car, it went dead. No sound, could not start at all. Oh no, i was panic, faster call my bro in law. He was in the hospital, with my FIL. He told me to ask my friend to come over and help me to restart my battery. I called desmond for help... luckily he was free to come over and rescue me. When he reached, he tried to restart my car's battery by connecting the cable with his car's battery. It started well, but went off again. So des suggest to call the serviceman over to fix it. I agreed, to change the whole battery better. If not later halfway at the expressway breakdown, den i really jialat.

Des went home after tat, will treat him a meal one fine day. Waited for the serviceman to come till 9pm. sob.... there goes my sat. Couldn't bring my princeton out for shopping. Tmr i got so much things to do. Wanna bring Princeton out, wanna go visit jaden, as well as my FIL. I must wake up damn early. So tat i can fulfill all these things. Tmr May will be alone in the hospital, really wanna go accompany her.

Visit Jaden 08/01 Visit FIL 09/01

Real shag day last nite... reached home at 11pm. Sis accompany me to KK visit jaden. When we reached there, saw little jaden was lying on the bed, with tube in the nose. My heart sank when i saw him. But he looks so cute when he was sleeping. I seldom see him sleep so soundly. May told me he would feel sleepy, n he had been crying for a long period. I could see that both May and wentong were in total tiredness.

Wentong fall sick, he was coughing. Due to insufficient rest, May's complexion also deteriorate... told them must drink alot of water. Actually suppose to visit my FIL last nite, but i knew that May must be crying badly. So i msg father that i will come down today instead. Anyway MIL and bro in law were with him. Luckily May was much more stable now.. hope she will stay strong. She must have ample rest, coz after jaden discharged, she gota take care of him. Will visit them again on sunday.

Just came back from SGH. FIL had his operation this morning. Good news that doctor said the operation was very successful. My FIL is a very humourous person. He could say jokes now. haha. I knew he was in pain, but he doesn't want us to get worried. I like my FIL alot, very proud to have him as a father. He is a person who loves his family alot. Will pray for his speedy recovery. Really hate to go to the hospital, to be frank. Sometimes would cry when i laid on my bed. Thinking the days when my precious brother suffered in the hospital... If ah boy is still with us now, how wonderful would that be. To play with my princeton, to hug my tian tian together...

Overtime till 8pm

OT today! Thought its just a short briefing, end up became a long meeting. Tmr suppose to be the meeting day. She added that we will continue tmr. wat?! Meeting is once a week, now become twice! Is not as if DBS is going to pay me OT pay! damn it. Rush home, wash up, den accompany Princeton for awhile. Everytime when i see him, all my trouble seems to go away. Esp when i see his smiles, hear his laughters and "shoutings".

Princeton is 7months 1weeks 2 days old today. He is able to hold his toys with both hands... two bottom teeth start growing. He can do a double or triple flip very easily too. So got to be extra careful when i put him on the bed. Never never let him fall off the bed. My boy still sleeps in the sarong, day and nite time. oh no, don't know when can he kick tat habit. I guess i got to look out for sarong tat can carry his weight soon! His feeding time is every 3.5/4 hours now, with 5 scoops @ 160ml. (with cereals n brown rice)

Princeton wakes up at 7 plus in the morning. He usually will wake up and play for 2hrs maximum each time he wakes up during daytime, after tat he will feel sleepy and wanna sleep. If he is at home the whole day, most likely he will had enough rest, and will wake up in the middle of the nite, at about 3am to drink milk. If we bring him out, tat nite he would surely sleep all the way till the next morning. hehe.

My little precious likes to grab his legs now. Babies are so flexible, he could pull his legs all the way to his cheeks. Mum said when the day tian tian is able to suck his toes, by den i'll be preggy again, ha.

Dear called me just now, we had a short chat, coz hp bills will be real expensive next month. Update him on jaden condition. Actually today i intend to go kk visit jaden, but due to the "SHORT" briefing, it's kind of late to go down. Mayb tmr i will make a trip now. Any1 wanna join me can msg me.

Praying hard for jaden speedy recovery.

Worrying

A day at home.. slept till 1pm. Suppose to have mahjong game with kaifang, date my cousin joreen too. But in the end fang msg me tat jaden was crying non stop, he vomited. So the game was cancelled. I went to Jurong Point for foot reflexology.. den da bao dinner back home for mum and my helper.

Had some playtime with Princeton, but at a distance. My bro in law gave mi a mask, so tat i won't spread it to the baby. May just called me, told me that jaden stil vomiting after drinking the milk. They intend to bring jaden to the clinic. I told them can go to kk hopsital. There is an A & E department esp for infants. Actually i wanted to go with them, but mum going out to grandma's house soon. So i gota be at hm. We try not to leave Princeton with my helper for too long. Worrying about Jaden, now they should be waiting for the pediatrician. When infant gets sick, we will be damn worry. Hopefully jaden can recover soon. This thur, FIL will be admited in SGH. I would not be able to take leave that day, so will visit him after work. Very worry for him too. These few nites, plenty of thoughts in mind. Thinking wat is hubby doing now, is he getting on well. Certainly he is. Whenever they get to go pattaya, they get to enjoy alot. Eat seafood everyday, drink and enjoy pubbing. But recently thailand is not a safe place. Although he would msg me everyday, but still, i will be worrying.

Think too much will frown, i will get older faster lol. Feels like watching a movie again. haha. alone again?! if i watch with others, dear surely gets jealous. Unless is with a gal. keke.. but i have more guy friends than girls. Anyway, a few of them already had gf, n i tin their gf aso don't like me. I also don't like them lor, cannot make it face, don't know y my guy friend choose them aso. ok time to accompany prince, i wana have a gdnite sleep later!

Dinner at bugis

It was a busy monday as usual. This week i will be at the customer service counter, handling quick transcations and answering all enquires. When i mean all enquires, i really mean ALL. People walk into the bank, asking me where is the singpost? One auntie asked me, where is the nearest police station?! One even more ridiculous, asked me to call IRAS for him! TOday i'm in a bad mood, perhaps i din sleep well last nite. Gave some customers black face, dunno they will write in and complain about me ornot.

After work, last min say got briefing. It ended at 7pm, and i rush hm to pick up Princeton... den quickly drove over to fetch sis. We went bugis for dinner with siyong... This little boy was very playful when he saw ah tio (siyong). He is learning how to clap his hand now! He shout and shout, laugh loudly... i guess he is trying to talk! After dinner, we shop around. Just for awhile, Princeton fell asleep in his pram again.

Went over to sis house.. Princeton is always so happi to go there. Everytime he gets to enjoy his playtime with the two of them! My boy is trying ways to crawl.... he could turned himself around the bed haha... hopefully he is able to move himself forward!

Last evening, cousin joreen aka baoyun came over my place to visit Princeton. She commented that my little prince is very chubby n tall! Looks 100% like zhenyu lol. She also feels that Princeton is a very special baby. I asked her why, she said Princeton just look like an adult who knows exactly wat is going on in his surroundings. Actually, all babies are special in their parent's eyes. All of us will think our child is the cutest, the best looking child. In fact, we are all created differently, but we are all special in the eyes of God.

Sat bored nite

Zhenyu was away for two days already... some more these two days were my off days. Freaking bored. Last nite, i was at hm the whole day, can't get near to my boy, as my cough has not recovered. Do not wan to spread to him. Even when i carry him, i can't talk. So i just play with him from a distance, he would just laugh also.

Last midnite i did a most incredible thing in my life. I went for a movie ALONE! Actually thought my cousin could accompany me, but in the end she said she's not free. I could just date others, be it guys or gals. But think again, i would just watch it alone. hee.. The feeling of watching a movie alone is damnnnnnnn lonely.... the cinema is so cold than usual. But this feeling is just awhile, when the movie started i was so engrossed. Australia indeed a good show to catch. Not only romance, but with excitement and its touching also. I so miss dearie when i smell the popcorns. When the dvd of this show is out, i will buy it and let dearie see.

I felt hungry after the 3hrs movie. But i do not wish to eat alone. So i just grab a garlic bread at the 7-11. Tmr is monday, i am "lucky" i need to work. but tue i'm off again, see if i could change my off day, coz FIL will be admit to SGH for his bypass operation this thursday.

Cousin Joreen msg me, said that she will come over my place later. Hopefully don't last min fly my plane. If she's not coming, den i will go for my facial le. Hope my 2weeks don't get tooooo bored. Can be bored, but please not too bored.

Mahjong session @ wentong's house

It has been ages since i last played a game of mahjong with wentong and kaifang. Still rem the days when i always went the wentong's house to watch soccer. Coz tat time i bet in the soccer games, some more during polydays time i'm so relaxed. Now, i don't even give a damn about soccer, no more bettings for me. I even forbid zhenyu to gamble.... But as for mahjong is ok, coz the bets are very small.

For me, first condemn habit is SMOKING, second will be gambling. Of course i'm talking about those who are addicted in it. Worse are those who owed money due to gambling. U can help them once, twice, but u can't help them forever. I also cannot accept those alcholic! Drink like nobody business. The above applies to both man and woman.

Playing MJ occassionally is healthy, as scientific proven that MJ helps to prevent Alzheimer's disease and memory loss. It is good to know how to play all these games, like blackjack, daidi, mj,soccer,4d, toto. Even in the casino, its good to know how these games work! It's fun to join in the game, and to learn from it. To be able to catch its tactic, and of course to win at the end. To know the minimun, at least u have the "knowledge" of it. But please i'm not asking u to become the God of Gambler!

Ok back to the topic at wentong's house. haha... we played a fast game. Although its only one round, but its fun. The 3 of them played very fast, i hope my speed can fit in... in the end wentong and his mum won... hehe.. i lost 3dollars, May lost 7dollars i tink. Hope i can have the time to join in with them again. Jaden was sleeping when we were playing. He was a gd boy, slept all the way for about 3 hours wor. At about 6pm, i left.. went to fetch sis from work. We had dinner at home. After tat, we went JP shopping. ha... JP again hor. Again, we went to the NTUC. This is the first sign that i am becoming an auntie. When u like to shop at NTUC, it means u r going to the stage of Auntie already. Oh no. My mum bought Princeton a blender. For us to blend all the fruits and vege for my little princeton to eat!

Tmr i will wanna prepare the meals for my lit boy. Hope he likes it!

Late nite outing with hubby

After dinner at my in laws place, we brought Princeton back home. Promise dearie that i would accompany him late tonite, coz tmr he'll be sailing off to pattaya. We went JP to shop around, den went to the mac. Hubby had his supper there, while i had my favourite apple pie.

We strolled at the ntuc again. haha... tis time dearie forbid me to buy anytin. As everytime i go there, sure to buy this buy that. It's getting late, and the shops are all closed. So zhenyu decide to bring me go 兜风! Been a long time since we did tat. He drove to lim chu kang area, yeeh.. abit misty and scary. We even saw wild boars.....! We drove and explore very remoted areas. But of course we did not get out of the car. I'm not so daring. While our car is slowing down, there were dogs barking at us. So scary man! There was even one dog which ran towards our car, if we didn't avoid it, i tink the dog will be knock down. Chatting while he drove, thinking that nobody will accompany me for 2weeks, i felt so sad lol.

Tmr is my off day, will send hubby to camp. After that will go JP for foot massage. My legs are aching already. Hope these 2weeks while dearie is not around, i can a chance to lose some weight.

New Year celebration at May's house

It was an old friends gathering, cum new yr count down celebration. Me and dearie went to buy snacks, bread and drinks. We even bought a cake, and ice cream. haha.... in the end too many leftovers. May ordered KFC, and jasline bought satay for us. Our preggy lady gladys got previlege, so she just need to come and wait for us to pick her up at JP.

Not only the four of us, we have our spouse too. And the two little princes. Waiting for May to upload the photos, so tat i can upload here. We watched the countdown TV program... don't have a chance to play mahjong, as wat zhenyu wanted. I told him ppl got work, tired, not like u off day energentic. Mayb gota wait till cny.... After the dinner today, my throat started to get sore. Me started coughing again... oh no. Have to drown myself in water quick.

Little jaden looks really like May. Now not even the lips resemble like mother, the eyes, the whole face! haha. let's see next month if jaden's look will change again. It's really an exciting process to see our child grows everyday. The funni part is tat i always call jaden as princeton! ahyo... don't know how many times already. too used to it.

Tmr will be going to my inlaws place for dinner. FIL will be having his bypass operation on the 9th jan. Pray hard that everything will go smoothly... if he could listen to my advice earlier on, to get himself insured in hospitalisation plan. Now he don't even need to pay a cent, n he can enjoy to stay in A1 ward. Insurance is costly, i agreed. If u don't get urself one, the consequences is MORE costly. Some ppl just don't understand. Understand already still don't buy. Really don't get it! haiz... pls don't get misunderstood, i'm not selling insurance. I'm just trying to get all my friends and love one protected. No matter how poor are u, how little u r earning, just 80bucks a month, can buy a term policy. Even if u DON'T think about urself, think about ur family. One day if u just die, at least they get 40k. U think ur funeral don't need money? Even if u say u no need a funeral, just to get ur cremated remains also need money.

I don't wish to nag further, if not i would sound as if i am cursing ppl on this first day of 2009. whenever i talk about this, i will get agitated, coz i hate to see the situation when people get sick, they are worrying about money, when they should worry about their health first.