Resting day

Its sunday, my resting day finally :) But zhenyu is on duty again, so im home alone with Princeton. My week was a smooth one, and i think next week will be that smooth too.. ha... ppl who likes to make trouble is not around, so happi!

Princeton's fever, cough flu is gone! I'm so glad... the weather was bad, really hot. So these few days i will on the living room air con for princeton. He is eating rice now, soft mode.. hee. he likes it! Trying to stand up on his own now too. Princeton is taller than the average :) Sister always tell me, Princeton is very good looking! I told her all babies are cute and gd looking. She said no. Princeton is different, he is simply cute! Of course i am happy to hear that.

But how long can one be cute? Most important is still the behaviour and the character of him. I believe, Princeton boy will make me proud.

Limits to my Tolerance

I am not a person with good temper, especially to my love ones. Don't know why, towards my family, (hubby) i tend to get very angry easily. In the past during sec school days, i reacted these to my close friends too. Don't know why also...

But at work, i am totally a different person. I tend to be the quiet type, just wanna finish work and go home, tats it. I avoid having good friends at work. To me, all of them are my colleagues, just that simple. I treated everyone equal, and i tried my best to be low profile. Unlike in the past, ya?

To be frank, at work, i can't even recognise myself. Firstly, i got to be real damn patient, coz i'm in the frontline service. Secondly, i have to tolerate some people who thinks if she is fierce, everybody scared her. Please, don't act like a kid, this is not your palace, u r NOT a princess. I just wanna work, and go home, i am not fighting ANything with you. DOn't make my life miserable, i work for the bank, NOT for you. My limit is up, ur last chance is over.

DON'T make me turn nasty.

Virus everywhere!

Many of my friend's children are down with fever, flu and cough. My Princeton boy is also one of the victims. Virus in the air, and babies are the first one who will be affected.

Just came back from our family doc, we were told that he had to continue to take the medicine that we gave him for 5 days. I bought some cooling pads for children too. Stick two pads behind princeton's back and one on the forehead. Hope it helps.. We were told to wipe him every 3hrs too. I will be off tmr as i have an appt with the lawyer tmr. So can't be there with Princeton, sob... but will rush back when everytin is done. Really hopes nothing cock up.

Princeton one year old birthday is coming, and i'll be holding at Chevrons again. Same restaurant as last year... Will be sending out msg to friends and relatives. So please make yourself free on the 24 May 2009 sunday, 11.30-1.00pm.

Cheers !

Every men dies, but not every men lived.

This morning, when i switched on my pc, one of my colleague msg me that, our DBS chief executive Richard Stanley, 48, has lost his brave battle against leukaemia. My heart dropped when i saw the msg... though i never even seen him in person, but actually i weeped. Took a deep breathe, control my emotion, coz i gota serve customers soon.

Just came back from The Garden Of Remembrance, where my dad and brother ashes were placed. Attended the church service there too. Today the pastor was talking about Death is not scary if u believed in Jesus. Because, you know that we'll be together with our love ones when we died. We are created by dust, and we will end up like dust too.

We only lived once, and i hope to live my life the fullest. I often regret things, mostly the things i didn't do, rather than the things i did. I regret that i never have the chance to bring my brother for foot reflexlogy, he simply loves massaging. i regret for not giving my dad enough money and never chat with him b4.... I regret i never ask david for a ktv session, and most all, i REGRET why couldn't i just lend him some more money! Why can't i just help him with tat few k??! Perhaps with that will help him to go through that tight period.

When i was a young girl, and when i had nightmares, i woke up crying, and i'll go to my sis's room. When i heard her voice, don't know y, i'll feel the comfort. I love my sis alot, and wanna let her know that, she's the best sister i ever know. Been a few days since she went Australia for holiday, hope to see u and jie fu soon :)

若爱一个人，能够爱多久?

“我愿意”。当你说这句话的时候，你已经告诉自己：“我跟定你”。震宇常说，老公有难，老婆扛一半。听了，我给他那笑容说 "我才管你。。” 当然只是说说，如果他真的有难，我会袖手旁观吗? 老公只能有一个，老婆也一样。所以那些对婚姻不重视的人，喜欢就结婚，不爽就离婚，以为是儿戏。认识没有几个月，就可以跟对方海世山盟?? 然后又没几月就闹离婚！

娶错，嫁错，都是自己的错。女人都是比较吃亏，说句难听的，谁要用二手货? 即使他口口声说不介意，我很确定的说，是男人就一定会介意！ 不介意的，有。。。。。 因为他自己不懂上了几个二手货，不差多一个。所以我们做女的，要自爱一点，不要遭塌自己。

嫁/娶了他/她后，会永远爱护，珍惜对方吗? 你会爱一个人多久呢?

Loving our parents

Loving our parents. This is equally important, just like we love our children. Esp when they are old, the more we should shower our love on them.

My Princeton will learn from me. If he sees that i don't love my parents at all, and i only love him, next time he will also shower all his love to his children, and not me. This is very true, and if u and your siblings don't care and share, how are u going teach your child to get along with his siblings in future?? First of all, as a parent we must set a good example. And to go further, if u r a smoker, then u r telling your child that its OK to smoke.

Of course, easier to say than done. As a mother, i wish to decide wat my boy will eat, and wat he can't eat. I simply don't like other ppl to give him any food ANYHOW. I am a person who wants my boy to be health conscious. Old ppl have a saying, "U must let him eat everything, den he won't be fussing next time" I am sorry to say, "NO". Children nowadays are not like the past anymore. They need good food, clean environment. As there are many deadly diseases nowadays, unlike last time. SO i really hope all these old folks can wake up, and remember that they are living in 2009 singapore, not 80s kampong anymore.