How do u determine your life partner???

Love at first sight? Yes i believe.. marriage soon after love at 1st sight?? Then most likely you will end up in a broken relationship. The things that i was about to say, is just my own thoughts. If any of the cases happpened to be similar of yours, it is merely a coincidence.


I would not dare to say i'm very good in choosing a guy. But at least until now, i still think its a right choice. No one is perfect. But that doesn't mean you can just pick some Tom and Lily as your life partner. Alot of us have many suitors, but how many of them are quality ones??


What is the first thing that ever cross your mind when choosing your MR Right? Looks? Chemistry? Wealth? Family background? Character?


Yes... all of the above are important. I can't say which one come first is more important. You will have to weigh it youself... People who date for quite some time, BUT rush into marriage, into having babies, most likely they will end up into cold wars. Which means when they gets older, they simply have nothing to chat with each other, find it pointless to talk anymore.


People who rush into datings then marriage, needless to say, most of it are ruin cases. Of course there are exceptions. But i believe we don't like to take chances.


Those who are choosing ur Mr Right now. Remember one simple logic: Choose someone who loves u more than u love him. 1% more is gd enough.


I cannot understand why some girls just love bad guys. Those people, u see his face u know is a piece of junk. If He cannot treat u like a queen now during dating times, how do u expect him to treat u after marriage???

There are too much for me to say. Just hope those who are dating, can open your eyes to see, open your heart to feel. Still unsure, bring that guy to me, i tell you if he is the one. Hey im not teasing, i can't really see if He's good. But i definately can SEE if He's BAD!!

Happy birthday 姐夫！

Today we went over to sis's place to have a mini celebration for siyong... sis and jiefu bought some dim sum, and we had lunch at home. After that watch dvd together :)

Sister and siyong planning to go HK soon. So envy... haha... and November they're going Taiwan. wow... rich sia. Hope they have fun!

Yesterday (sat), dearie and i bought Princeton boy to Takashimaya.. Finally i finished using up all my vouchers already, hee... We went Pasta Cafe for dinner. Our boy was very well behaved, sat down in the baby chair and listening to our chit chat conversation. He was ok for an hour, but mayb i ate too slow le, Princeton began to make noise and so hubby had to carry him and walk around.

Tmr is monday again, blues. Hope sat will come fast!

Events for the week...

Back from Genting trip, haha... fun trip. But as usual no winnings in casino. Both of us spend one whole day at the theme park. The flying roller coaster and corkscrew 360 degree thrill rides were great!

The next day when we got back, we brought Princeton to Science Centre. Me blur sotong, left the camera at home... Princeton enjoyed the trip, just tat he was terrified when he saw the T- Rex. Haha. The following day, we went discovery centre... nah.. nothing fantastic there. Today meet sis and jie fu to Great World City for lunch. Princeton was delighted to see ah yee and ah tio. He was indeed tired, but forgets about his nap while he was busy playing :)

We went over cousin Anson's place just now. To see his newborn baby boy! Sooo red and cute. haha.. wanna carry, but he was sleeping soundly.

Tmr dearie wanna bring us to the Zoo. Pray for good weather... gona wake up early, if not the noon sun will kill me. Tuesday will go sentosa. Wed botanic garden! Lets make things happen!

First Day of my Block Leave

Today marks the first day of block leave.. Meet up with sis and jie fu for dinner. Spend our evening at their house. Tmr hubby n i have to wake up at 5am. Shower, make up, prepare for our short journey to Genting.

The bus will leave at 7am sharp, so gota reach on time. A short break for the two of us.. although i'll be missing my son soooo much. Sister once told me, the most important for a couple is communication. Couple needs to communicate with each other at least 1 hour per day?? (Quality ones) like 7500 words per week?? Can't really rem the exact figures... In summary, we need to chat and interact daily. Just like old times during our dating days.

Princeton boy loves to do gymnastics pattern recently. And he can call hubby now.. we are sure this is not his baby language. Bcoz he looked at his daddy, and mouthed "da da". Not one time, but several times. When he wants ppl to carry, he'll say " bao bao"... and both arms up. but so sad... mummy so difficult to say :(

Its ok, i'm not sad la, as long as Princeton kiss me everyday. haha.. I'm sure Princeton will still rem me, even though he can't see me for 3days. When we come back, we have all day programs just for u my precious! Wish daddy and mummy gd luck for our Genting trip!

I love Family outing

Last saturday, as planned, zhenyu and i went takashimaya with Princeton. The Toy Fair was still on. We bought 3 big items for Princeton, and luckily we managed to carry it home. Walk around at Ion Orchard, wow.. nice place. We shopped till 11.30pm.. Princeton don't feel abit tired, busy looking around.

Just celebrated hubby's birthday on sunday, tat was National Day. And it was an unforgettable one. We spent one whole day with uncle william, aunt sharon and candice. Zhenyu was really happy, can even see him smile when he sleep that night, haha. Thanks so much Uncle william! I know u must be tired out... coz the next day we actually slept throughout the afternoon!

Today the meeting ends at 8.30pm... just had some playtime with my little boy, and he is getting very mischievous. I threw the ball to him, he threw back at me! He can even threw faster than me. Anyhow throw, then laughed happily.

Tmr i'm on leave again. Funny rite? Being forced to take leave again. Next week, i'll stay away from the bank for ten whole days. yeah! Though i kept complaining about my job, but to be frank, i did my best in my everyday work. Today my district manager came to the branch for briefing. He gave me a service award certificate. The headline of our newsletter for this quarter is.... me. As i am lucky to achieve the top sales staff. Of course i'm happy, but i'm not contented. Just hope to go further than that.

Waiting for this weekend to go east coast! Looking forward to sat n sunday every wk :)

On leave @ home

These few days were rather busy at work. Felt some unhappiness with the management as well. And not to mention that barking fatso cum messy hair cum smelly pig is stepping my toe again.

Was told to clear my leave today, i'm ok with it, wanna have a gd rest. Woke up at 10am, Princeton was playing inside his playland already... He woke up 8am every morning. I accompany him to play, and was surprised to see he had learnt some new skill. This boy actually can climb down from my bed himself! Not the platform bed, but the one inside my room. I thought it would be too high for him, but he could do it. My mum said, he knew it long ago lo... just that we must be ready to support him in case he fall backward.

He can walk very fast with his toy car. But simply don't wish to walk by himself. haiz... When hubby said clap clap, bye bye, Princeton will do it. He can now said PA PA, MA MA, very clearly. BUT, sorry, he is not calling us. dot dot..

This is just his baby language. When he wanna eat, he will say "mum mum". When he happy, he will say many different kinds of things. But it's okie, every baby learn at their own pace. The more u hurried them, the slower they are.

My block leave is coming. Will be going genting with dearie.. Wind down awhile, spend some quality time together. Only 3days, cannot be longer, coz we'll miss our Princeton sooooo much. Wanted to bring him along, but dearie said Princeton is still having slight cough, so better not. Moreover in genting, alot of idiots are smoking everywhere.

We had plans for these whole week. When we came back from genting, we will bring Princeton to the ZOO, the next day Sentosa, and east coast cycling! These are our goals to achieve. And yes, it will only be the 3 of us, my helper will be at home. We don't wish to rely too much on her, anyway i have no problem to take care of Princeton alone.

Tmr, we'll be to orchard takashimaya. Heard there's a toy fair, and i have 250 vouchers yet to spend. My living room is already full of Princeton's toy. haha.. abit messy is ok, as long as the area is clean.

Princeton is taking his nap nw, i'll also take mine, hee..

Dim Sum @ RedStar Resturant

Planned this gathering about two weeks ago. Junjie suggested to go Redstar for dim sum, we all love it. But unfortunately, something crops up, so he and joey can't join in with their little man.. :(

We had a full lunch, quite alot of different dim sum. But we din manage to try all. So i guess we'll go there again the next time! Princeton was sleepy.. but saw Uncle Danny, forgotten about his nap! He kept looking at Danny, after that danny tried to carry him, and little princeton was ok with it! Perhaps the environment was cooling and the place smell nice lol.

We ate till 3pm, then head to china square Han's Restaurant. Had some drinks and cakes. haha... these ppl not full enough. There's alot of things to catch up, chat till 7pm! Princeton also had his nap there.. He slept about one and a half hour, had his porridge, then we left together. Wat a coincidence, guess wat! We met Junjie and joey at the car park. Oh my, its fated.. haha. RedStar and China Square were two different places, and yet we could still bump into each other! hee.. Joey very slim le, pretty mum.

After that, dearie and i brought Princeton to Jurong Point for dinner. We had subway.. on diet, ate too much this afternoon. My sweet sweet boy still energetic, so we went to ntuc top up some milk powder, diapers, and baby bites. My son don't look as tired as me lol.. He was laughing all the way in the car while going home. After washing up, he had his milk. Now sleeping soundly in his baby cot le. Sweet dreams darling.

Wat a day with hubby, tian tian and friends!