Seldom bring my gem out alone, without her brother especially... Only to the park 15mins walk from our block, or just downstairs for a stroll. Told myself from today onwards, whenever i go, i'll bring along Paris, because very soon she will be going to child care centre ~ which is 6more months. Anyway most of the time she is with me, coz my concept is whenever i go, my children goes. Just don't like the idea of leaving them at home. Unless very sick (touch wood!) But if very sick, shouldn't i stay at home and take care of them?? It's quite ironic that some parents can enjoy themselves outside/going overseas without their children.
Anyway there is no absolute right or absolute wrong. Excuses often can make things sound abit right, but whether or not it's up to individual. Most importantly, we are happy lor. Other people's business i couldn't care much, but if i do make comment, i really mean i care. Example my sis and my close friends. My sis had a hard time handling this naughty Zachary. I gave her the encouragement that difficult babies will turn out to be easy children. Ever since the birth of Zac, i felt my sis changed alot. She changed into a person that will seek advice, hear advise, and share experiences. Not that last time she couldn't, but just that now she do it in a more humble way and of course i like it! hee.... Now scold her she also can take it. She understand that people say her for a reason. Last time she might thought that everything she must be right, refused to heed advice. Oops.
I have faith, she will be a successful mother cum wife. A noble working mum who can do wonders. Her thinking are close to mine. If there's a differences, i'll be glad to share mine with her. Whenever i have got dilemma, the first person i would talk to is my sis.
When a third person discipline my children, I'm really thankful for that. Because some blind spots, i really couldn't rectify. So if people reprimand my children, i am more glad to take it. On the other hand, if we can't do that, (which means we always think never mind they are still young, or always find excuses to side them, or have the thinking: Mind your own business). Then there's only one consequence ~ let your child rot and become a piece of shit.
People don't say for fun. People don't comment because they got nothing better to do. Just like teachers, if the school teacher feedback that your child very naughty, kept bringing games into the classroom to play. Are you going to say, oh because he is bored??!
If one day i became so stubborn, please help me by waking me up.
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